Focus on creating a space that is not only functional for accessibility but is also aesthetically pleasing. Thoughtful design can make accessible features blend seamlessly into the home’s overall look.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Focus on creating a space that is not only functional for accessibility but is also aesthetically pleasing. Thoughtful design can make accessible features blend seamlessly into the home’s overall look.
Involve your local community in your project to foster good relationships and potentially gather support. This could also help mitigate any neighbours’ concerns during construction, especially regarding access.
Take the lead in project management, but be realistic about your capabilities. Colin attempted to manage subcontractors himself which added complexity. A professional project manager could have alleviated some of the stress and confusion.
Emphasise the importance of planning every aspect of the build. As Chris and Jill mentioned, “Fail to prepare is to prepare to fail.” A solid plan helps manage budgets and timelines effectively.
Set a clear and realistic budget before beginning your project and include a buffer for unexpected expenses. In this case, Anne and Richard started with an £85,000 budget but ended up spending £115,000. It’s wise to plan for an overage to avoid financial strain.
Lower rents (financial burdens) allow the occupants to work in more social type vocations after the build which further enhances the larger community.
Building a home, especially in situations involving blended families or emotional histories, can evoke complex feelings. Recognise that building can unearth past traumas, and it’s crucial to create a supportive environment throughout the process.
Marrying different architectural styles and materials is challenging.
Where possible, prototype or test materials and design ideas in situ before finalising them. Understanding how ideas function in practice versus on paper is crucial.
Before embarking on a build, it’s crucial to have a clear design vision and understand the materials and processes you might need. Researching different building methods and materials can save time and costs down the line.
Understand that building your own home can be emotionally draining. Prepare for highs and lows, and maintain open communication with your partner to navigate challenges together.
While it may be tempting to incorporate the latest trends, focus on high-quality finishes and practical functionalities that will provide long-lasting satisfaction.
Prioritise biophilic design principles by incorporating nature into your home. This connection can enhance well-being and comfort, as seen in the integration of the pond with Dan and Nina’s living spaces.
While it’s important to have a timeline, rushing can result in cutting corners. Lee and Richard often had to backtrack on decisions due to hasty actions, which stressed both their budget and timeline.
Be flexible in adjusting your plans based on new information or opportunities, as Justin did when advised to excavate underneath the entire lodge rather than just part of it for more valuable space.
Maintain open lines of communication with the builders, local community, and suppliers. Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings that may cause delays or additional costs.
Be prepared for setbacks, including potential contractor failures or budget constraints. Have a plan for managing these situations, such as having an emergency fund or a legal framework to resolve disputes.
Be prepared for how the building project will impact your daily life, from time commitments to the nature of family interactions. Balancing project needs with family life is crucial for maintaining harmony.
Keep a scrapbook or portfolio of design ideas, as Jonathan did. This can help you communicate your vision clearly to architects and contractors, ensuring alignment throughout the project.
As challenging as it can be, taking the time to celebrate milestones in construction can maintain motivation and morale throughout the build.
Maintain consistent communication between all parties involved—builders, family, and suppliers. As Jimmy became less involved, issues arose, demonstrating the importance of staying organised and informed throughout the build.
Living in a space before finalising finishes allows for better-informed decisions regarding design and functionality. Adrian and Megan only completed their kitchen and other interior details after living in the house for a while, ensuring that the space fit their lifestyle.
Compromises may be necessary throughout the build; creatively integrating modern elements with the historic structure can lead to a unique and appealing outcome.
Expect hurdles during the building process. Be adaptable and maintain open communication with your contractors. The ability to respond positively to delays or changes is vital.
Sometimes, you get what you pay for. Opt for reputable suppliers and products, especially for critical components like windows and roofing, as they can significantly impact the durability and comfort of your home.
Have a clear understanding of your financial limits before starting the build. Unexpected costs can arise, and having a budget and contingency plan is essential to avoid financial strain and reliance on credit.
Perfection may not be achievable within budget constraints. Focus on completing the project to a satisfactory level that meets your needs rather than aiming for an idealised version.
Ensure constant and clear communication among all stakeholders involved in the project. This prevents misunderstandings and mismanagement.
Employ experienced professionals for specialised roles in the project. Natasha benefited greatly from architect Wilf’s multi-faceted involvement as a designer, quantity surveyor, and planner.
Resist the urge to rush through cosmetic decoration. Focus on quality and authenticity which will yield better long-term satisfaction than a quick, superficial makeover.
Ian and Claire’s project exceeded its initial budget. It’s important to include a contingency fund in the financial plan to accommodate unexpected costs that typically arise during construction projects.
Recognise your limitations. For specialised tasks (like installation of solar panels or large glass sections), hire professionals instead of trying to do it yourself, as mistakes can be costly.
The pressure to complete the build within seven months put unnecessary strain on Martin and Kae. It’s vital to allow sufficient time for design, construction, and management of a self-building project, keeping in mind that timings can change.
Don’t shy away from the uniqueness of your project. Justin’s choice to embrace the eccentricities of living in a cemetery created a special narrative for his home and personal legacy.
Selecting eco-friendly and locally sourced materials can enhance sustainability while keeping costs down. Research the best insulation and construction materials suitable for your climate and design.
Each build is unique, and there will be moments of trial and error. Document what works and what doesn’t to improve your understanding for your next project.
Acknowledge your skills and experience level. Tom, despite being an entrepreneur, had no real building experience, which contributed to many challenges. New builders should consider sticking to projects that match their expertise or collaborate with experienced builders.
The Iredales had built two previous homes and drew on that experience. Learning from past projects can enormously benefit your current build.
Invest in high-quality insulation and air-tight construction techniques to minimise future energy bills. Even a basic heating system can perform efficiently if the building is well-sealed.
While it’s important to have a beautiful and innovative design, ensure that the house remains functional and suitable for your day-to-day living.
While budget constraints can limit options, working with architects or designers who specialise in accessible homes can save time and costly mistakes down the line. They can help marry function with beauty effectively.
Maintain open lines of communication with all parties involved—sleeping partners, family, contractors, and architects. Misunderstandings can lead to costly errors or design flaws.
When envisioning your build’s timeline, set achievable goals. Original timelines may need revision based on the complexities of the build; adjusting expectations can reduce stress.
Understand that construction projects often take longer than anticipated. Aim for a flexible timeframe to accommodate potential delays.
When tackling an unconventional build, such as an earth-sheltered house, ensure that your architect, project manager, and contractors have relevant experience. This can help avoid potential pitfalls and costly mistakes resulting from unfamiliarity with the design challenges.
A DIY approach can be cost-effective, but there’s a high potential for delays if tasks are not planned sequentially. Contracting key jobs to professionals at the right time is crucial to avoid costly mistakes.
Understand that living conditions during construction can be challenging. Plan ahead for potential discomfort—Sophie and Richard lived in a caravan for 18 months, which was harder than anticipated.
Even if things get tough, maintain an emotional attachment to the project. Richard’s initial passion and emotional connection with the reservoir structure helped sustain their motivation despite setbacks.
Recognise that unique and bold designs may come with limitations, especially in prefab builds. Understanding these constraints early can help you mentally prepare for compromises.
Engage with quantity surveyors or building professionals early in the design phase to ensure financial feasibility and avoid overspending during construction.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.