When choosing materials and finishes, consider their long-term durability and maintenance needs. Some aesthetically pleasing options may require more upkeep than more straightforward alternatives.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
When choosing materials and finishes, consider their long-term durability and maintenance needs. Some aesthetically pleasing options may require more upkeep than more straightforward alternatives.
While it may be cost-effective, having your architect serve as the project manager can lead to conflicts and communication breakdowns. Ensure there is a clear distinction between these roles to maintain accountability and focus.
Accept that not everything will be perfect; small imperfections can add character and warmth to your home. Focus on creating an inviting living space rather than a showroom.
When working on listed buildings, ensure that materials and methods used preserve the building’s historical integrity. Work closely with conservation officers to understand what modifications are acceptable.
Invest in personal touches, like custom fixtures designed by local artisans, to ensure your home reflects your individuality and taste. This transforms a house into a true home.
Regularly communicate with your partner, team, and suppliers, especially when living apart or working from different locations. Keeping everyone on the same page will help mitigate misunderstandings and ensure that everyone shares the same vision for the project.
Coordination with family members, contractors, and project managers should be ongoing throughout the project. Regular updates can prevent misunderstandings and ensure everyone is aligned with the project’s goals.
Accept that doing some work yourself can save costs and keep the project moving forward when trades face delays. Acquiring new skills can be beneficial and empowering.
Incorporate drainage solutions from the start. Henry faced flooding issues in his basement, highlighting the risks of inadequate drainage design. A sump pump or similar system should be part of the initial plan, especially in basements.
Before purchasing any plot, thoroughly understand the characteristics of the site, including factors like flood risk, ground conditions, and access limitations. In this case, building on a floodplain brought significant engineering challenges that affected the build cost and design.
Set a budget based on realistic estimates of construction costs, and always factor in unexpected expenses. Consider savings that can arise from contracting your own work by using your expertise, as seen with Thomas overseeing his build.
Don’t be intimidated by neighbours during construction. Open communication helps but be prepared for resistance and conflicts. Building relationships early can ease future negotiations.
Be adaptable with design choices to accommodate material availability and local regulations. Using reclaimed materials is often cost-effective but requires flexibility in your initial vision.
Avoid the temptation to manage the entire project yourself, especially if you have no prior experience. Mark and Julie initially managed the build without a full-time project manager, which led to overwhelming stress and delays. Hiring a professional can save time, money, and headaches.
Acknowledge and celebrate the completion of stages throughout the build process to maintain enthusiasm and motivation among your team.
Anticipate your temporary living situation during renovations. Leigh and Richard moved into a caravan, which had its challenges. Planning for comfortable and practical living conditions during the renovation can help mitigate stress.
Consider elements that will make the home more adaptable for future needs, such as installing a future-proof lift or considering energy-efficient options like solar panels from the outset.
The pandemic led to supply shortages and material price increases, which pressured budgets. Stay informed about market trends for materials and prepare for potential delays or increases in prices.
Recognise that delays are common in construction projects, especially ones with complex site dynamics or multiple contractors. Be flexible and patient, and have a plan for how to address these delays financially.
Understand that renovations can take longer than anticipated and that unforeseen challenges will arise. Being flexible with the timeline can reduce frustration.
Allow for adjustments and revisions during construction to accommodate on-site realities and changes, as Bill did when he adjusted window sizes and designs throughout the project.
Familiarise yourself with planning permissions and local regulations. Misunderstandings regarding permissions can lead to significant hurdles in the building process.
Building a home can be emotionally and financially taxing. Prepare for the stress involved, and set aside time for family discussions about the emotional impact of the build.
Investigate available land through local authority planning portals instead of relying solely on property websites. This can uncover hidden opportunities, especially in a competitive market.
If traditional methods aren’t feasible, be willing to explore new methods or technologies that could help overcome challenges, such as building a transport system for moving materials.
Consider strategies for off-grid living by exploring sustainable energy sources (like boreholes for water and solar panels for electricity) ahead of time, as it can drastically reduce your dependency on external utilities.
Lower rents (financial burdens) allow the occupants to work in more social type vocations after the build which further enhances the larger community.
Projects can quickly become overwhelming, so having a reliable support system, whether it’s family, friends, or experienced professionals, can alleviate stress and provide assistance when necessary.
Angelo’s project was as much about personal healing and growth as it was about creating a physical space. View your build as an opportunity for personal development and embrace the process.
Engage with self-build resources, courses, or communities to gain more knowledge about the building process. Building experience can help in decision-making and problem-solving throughout the project.
Incorporate energy-efficient systems (like renewable energy solutions) into your design from the start. This may help save costs in the long term and provide a more sustainable living environment.
Before purchasing an old building, consult with local planning authorities to understand what renovations are allowed. Gwyn and Kate initially wanted to demolish the cinema but had to pivot to restoration after the planners intervened.
While prefabricated options may promise quick installation, ensure that you can maintain quality with your chosen manufacturers. Inspect and vet construction companies thoroughly before committing.
Determine the layout of electrical outlets and plumbing well in advance, especially in a log house where walls cannot be easily changed. Decisions need to be made early, as pre-drilling is required.
Capture the experiences and challenges throughout the project. This can provide a reflective practice for future builds and may serve as inspiration for others.
Consider the maintenance required long-term for your build. Tim learned that saltwater environments necessitate ongoing care. Budgeting for future maintenance needs should be part of your financial planning.
Create a space that reflects your taste rather than strictly adhering to one style. Combining various elements can provide a more dynamic and personalised atmosphere.
When hiring contractors, always get several quotes. Rosa and Craig found variances in bids ranging from £1.1 million to £1.4 million. Negotiating and compromising on aspects like landscaping can reduce overall costs.
Consider how your home will accommodate your needs as you age. Planning for accessibility from the outset can help avoid later difficulties.
Near the coast and high up, the weather is harsher so leathery plants are preferred
Design the home with the future in mind—not just for yourself but for your family as well. Consider how the layout and features will accommodate future children and their activities.
Ensure you have a solid financial plan that includes a budget for unexpected costs. Fred and Saffron’s journey illustrated the importance of understanding financing options and effectively communicating with mortgage providers to avoid delays.
Include accommodation costs during the build process in your budget, especially if you need to rent a place while your home is under construction.
Understand the concept of ‘sweat equity’ – contributing labour for reduced costs and long-term housing benefits. It requires dedication but can result in significant savings and community investment.
Building a home is physically demanding, and ignoring personal health can have serious consequences. Paul’s back surgery highlighted the importance of maintaining good health and recognising when to delegate or take breaks.
Communication is vital throughout the build. Marnie, by staying engaged, helped catch mistakes, highlighting the importance of regular reviews and checks in the building process.
Familiarise yourself with local building regulations and potential zoning issues early. Rosa and Craig faced logistical challenges that stemmed from insufficient research.
Acknowledge that mistakes will happen, whether in design or execution. Use these moments to gather experience and knowledge for future projects, rather than dwelling on setbacks.
Converting a building of substantial size and complexity, such as a church, requires careful planning and a realistic assessment of what can be achieved. Ensure you understand the scale of work involved before committing.
Anticipate that the final cost of your project might exceed your initial estimate, and plan for contingencies by having a financial buffer.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.