Ensure the accuracy of all specifications before ordering materials. A simple measurement typo in the glass order cost Bill thousands and caused significant delays.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Ensure the accuracy of all specifications before ordering materials. A simple measurement typo in the glass order cost Bill thousands and caused significant delays.
Hire craftsmen experienced in working for heritage projects. Their expertise will significantly improve the quality of the restoration and ensure that traditional building methods are adhered to.
Construction setbacks can happen, especially with complex tasks like excavation. Be mentally prepared for challenges and maintain a flexible mindset to adapt to changes as they arise.
While enthusiasm is important, set realistic timelines that account for the complexity of working with historic properties. Jimmy’s optimistic six-month estimate deviated significantly from the actual timeframe, which led to stress.
Strive for a cohesive appearance that integrates both old and new areas. Thoughtful planning regarding materials, colours, and styles can help create a harmonious transition between sections of the build.
Always ensure you have a clear understanding of your total costs, including unexpected expenses. Micah and Elaine had a tight budget of £245,000 but found themselves needing an additional £35,000 during the build. Allow for contingencies in your financial planning.
The craftsmanship of finer details, such as plastering and wood treatment, plays a crucial role in the building’s longevity and visual appeal. Don’t overlook these elements; they are worth the effort.
In cases of personal loss or emotional upheaval, it can be meaningful to continue a loved one’s dream in a way that also reflects your new reality. This can provide a sense of closure and purpose.
While it can be tempting to work with friends and family, ensure there are some contractual agreements in place. Paul relied heavily on friends without formal contracts, which in a complex build can be risky if issues arise.
Understand the historical significance and potential complications of a property before purchasing. The Benetts initially thought they were buying a cattle shed, only to discover it was a significant medieval guild hall. Conduct surveys with historians and archaeologists early on to avoid surprises and ensure informed decisions.
If you want a pond/lake nearby it is sensible to have it near the house to use the rain water from the roof and surfaces of the building.
When selecting finishes and fixtures, compromise on style as needed, but ensure that the materials used are durable and suited to the intended environment, reducing maintenance concerns.
Investigate the history and structural integrity of any building before buying. Understanding previous uses and potential issues can save time and money. Ian and Sophie found a derelict paper mill; had they known about the ground stability issues earlier, they might have approached the project with different expectations.
Acknowledge personal and family dynamics while designing your space. Every family has unique needs that need to be reflected in the design and layout.
Start thinking sustainably from the project’s foundation. Innovative materials, like eco concrete and carbon-neutral insulation, were key in achieving the required eco-standards.
Remember that self-building is not just about achieving your dream home; it’s about the process. Keep sight of your ultimate goal and how the building will serve your long-term personal or family needs.
Be open to adjusting your plans based on financial realities and professional advice. This flexibility can help you maintain the overall vision of your build while accommodating potential budget constraints.
Honest discussions about the emotional and financial stress of the project are essential. Regular check-ins with your partner can help prevent misunderstandings and frustrations.
Before committing to extensive renovations, conduct a thorough inspection of the property. This should include checking for any signs of structural damage, water infiltration, or other hidden problems. An understanding of the property’s condition can prevent costly surprises during the renovation process.
While striving for perfection is admirable, it’s crucial to Recognise when compromise is necessary, especially about design elements and overall project scope. Flexibility can prevent fatigue and frustration during the build.
Building will never be flawless. Sometimes, it’s better to focus on liveability and functionality rather than attaining an unrealistic perfect finish.
When faced with tough decisions, Prioritise what will benefit you in the long run (e.g., ensuring a breathtaking view over sticking strictly to the original budget).
If living on-site during renovations, ensure you have basic comforts (like hot water) to make the disruption of building more manageable.
Expect setbacks in the building process, whether they are due to weather, skill shortages, or personal challenges. Develop a strategy to cope with delays that may arise.
Create a detailed timeline that includes buffer time for unexpected delays. Be aware that construction tends to follow a non-linear path and adjustments may be required.
Discuss roles and responsibilities with your partner or collaborators at the outset, as stress can arise from miscommunication. Colin and Marta sometimes struggled with this aspect, affecting their teamwork during the project.
Building a home can strain family dynamics. Clear communication regarding workload, expectations, and financial decisions is vital to keeping relationships intact.
When rebuilding after a loss or redesigning, consider integrating modern techniques with traditional styles to enhance your home’s appeal and performance.
Regularly check in on the build process to stay on schedule and maintain control over the design choices being made. This proactive involvement ensures that your vision is being realised as planned.
If renovating, critically assess existing infrastructures, such as water sources and sewage systems, to determine if they can be upgraded efficiently or if alternatives should be incorporated.
If you aim for a higher quality finish, you may have to be insistent about standards and quality control. Conduct regular inspections, especially on critical elements such as waterproofing.
Engaging a good architect and builder can streamline your project. The couple hired architect Keith Day and insisted on a fixed-price contract with their builder, which protected them from overspending. This approach can prevent stress and financial difficulties.
Document and celebrate important moments during the build process, whether it’s breaking ground or finishing the roof, to keep morale high and maintain enthusiasm for the project.
Managing a large project with many moving parts requires a good organisational system. Chris and Leanne found it challenging to keep track of all the tasks, suppliers, and scheduling. A clear timeline and checklist can help keep the project on track.
Consider employing architects or project managers, particularly for complex projects. Trying to manage everything without adequate professional assistance can lead to errors and misunderstandings that could have been avoided.
Ensure that all measurements are precise and confirmed by professionals before ordering structural elements. Small discrepancies can lead to significant delays and costs.
The kitchen, dubbed “Mothership HQ,” was designed focusing on utility, but also needed to be easier for Kae to manage with children. Consider how each area of the home will function for your family’s day-to-day life rather than just aesthetic appeal.
The pandemic led to supply shortages and material price increases, which pressured budgets. Stay informed about market trends for materials and prepare for potential delays or increases in prices.
If managing the project becomes overwhelming, don’t hesitate to lean on experts like architects or conservation specialists. Their knowledge can lead to innovative solutions that respect the building’s history.
Involving family and friends in the build can foster relationships and make the process more enjoyable. It also allows for shared learning experiences and support.
Consider using salvaged materials where possible. This not only cuts costs but can add character and history to your build, as well as being more environmentally sustainable.
Clearly define your role in the project. Trying to do both project management and hands-on work can lead to confusion and mistakes, potentially increasing costs.
A major building project can strain relationships. Be prepared for stress and discuss how to manage it together. This can help maintain harmony during the build.
Before committing to a building plot, ensure that it offers the value you seek. Visually assess the land, potential views, and surroundings with professional guidance to avoid surprises later on.
Engage friends, volunteers, or skilled workers to assist with your project. Daren and Adi successfully utilised a volunteer workforce, but they also employed skilled artisans for specialised tasks, enhancing both productivity and quality.
Building projects often take longer than anticipated. Anticipate possible delays, especially with elements that have long lead times, such as custom glass or specialised materials, and factor these into your schedule.
Incorporate eco-friendly materials, good ventilation, and natural finishes into the design, prioritising the health of your household and the environment.
Monty’s project relied heavily on loans and remortgaging. Consider alternative financing options and plan for the possibility of needing extra funds to avoid financial stress.
Focus on stabilising the existing structure before making aesthetic changes. Ensure that foundational elements and critical support structures are sound to prevent future issues.
Conduct thorough assessments of the land before building, especially if it has an industrial history. The Irvines undertook extensive soil tests, which resulted in delays but were crucial for safety.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.