After moving in, take the time to assess if the home truly meets your needs. Consider making adjustments or additions, such as an extension or changes in layout, to improve liveability.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
After moving in, take the time to assess if the home truly meets your needs. Consider making adjustments or additions, such as an extension or changes in layout, to improve liveability.
Utilising recycled materials and local resources can significantly cut costs and reduce environmental impact. Builders should Prioritise sourcing materials that are sustainable and readily available to them.
Visit other sites or locations that embody your architectural style for inspiration, as firsthand observation can provide valuable insights that may not be found online.
Ensure that sustainability solutions (like windows) truly offer the benefits they claim. Theo and Elaine invested in high-quality energy-efficient windows that ultimately enhanced their home’s comfort and reduced heating costs.
Acknowledge that the building process can be lengthy and filled with challenges. Focus on the joint experience and the growth it fosters in your family, which can ultimately add value to the experience.
Before purchasing any plot, thoroughly understand the characteristics of the site, including factors like flood risk, ground conditions, and access limitations. In this case, building on a floodplain brought significant engineering challenges that affected the build cost and design.
Whenever feasible, consider repurposing materials from the site as Rosa and Craig did with stones excavated during the build. This not only saves money but also contributes to a sustainable building approach.
Consider how specific design choices (like the “upside-down” living room concept) can improve functionality and enhance daily life. Personalise your space to fit your lifestyle.
Building a house can be a learning experience. Accept that errors may occur, but view them as opportunities for growth and improvement.
Building control regulations can be strict; be prepared for compromises. When faced with limitations, like Tim was with his railings, finding satisfaction in alternative solutions is crucial to keeping morale high.
Be realistic about timelines; construction projects often take longer than expected. Allow for unforeseen circumstances, such as weather delays or sourcing materials, and include flexibility in your schedule.
Opt for long-lasting materials that will stand up to everyday family life, particularly in spaces frequented by children and pets.
Ensure that everyone involved in the build is clear on their roles and the project goals. This is especially important if you’re managing volunteers or friends.
Ensure your design includes functional living spaces. Prioritise creating comfortable environments that meet your practical needs alongside unique architectural aesthetics.
A project of this scale not only changes your physical surroundings but also impacts your lifestyle. Be prepared to adapt to new routines and community engagement opportunities.
Maintaining a Collaborative relationship with your builder ensures that both parties understand intentions and work efficiently towards a common goal.
Participation in aspects of the build can save costs and foster family bonding, as illustrated by Davi and Matt painting their new home together. If feasible, gather skills through social projects, workshops, or classes prior to beginning your self-build.
A skilled architect can provide valuable insights and innovative designs that enhance the build. Rosa and Craig’s architect played a crucial role in transforming the reservoir effectively, ensuring the design matched their vision.
Before starting construction, invest time in extensive research about the architectural style and its detailing. Knowing the essential elements of the design can prevent last-minute changes during the build.
Ensure you have a solid financial plan that includes a budget for unexpected costs. Fred and Saffron’s journey illustrated the importance of understanding financing options and effectively communicating with mortgage providers to avoid delays.
Understand that finding a suitable plot of land and obtaining planning permission can take years. Monty took four years to find land and an additional two and a half years for planning approval. Patience is crucial.
Hire a quantity surveyor at the onset to help manage costs and avoid unexpected financial surprises. This can help in refining your budget based on realistic assessments.
Allow yourself ample time (potentially years) to plan every aspect of your project before beginning. This includes selecting the right plot, defining your budget, and understanding local regulations. Impulsive decisions can lead to regrets and increased costs.
Construction on steep slopes can be hindered by adverse weather conditions. Have contingency plans in place to accommodate delays caused by rain or snow.
Build spaces that can evolve over time. As Michael learned later, the functionality of their home needed to adapt when family circumstances changed, highlighting the importance of thinking ahead for future needs.
A build can become all-consuming. Ensure your family and support system understands the demands of the project and can lend emotional or physical support as needed.
Marrying different architectural styles and materials is challenging.
Implement energy-efficient systems during the build (like underfloor heating). This will save costs in the long run and make the home more comfortable.
If conditions change (such as losing a builder), learn to adapt your strategy quickly to keep the momentum of the build going.
Prepare mentally for delays and setbacks. They are a common part of the building process and shouldn’t be taken as failures.
Create a detailed budget, including contingency funds for unexpected costs. Monitor expenses closely throughout the project to avoid running out of funds.
Familiarise yourself with local building regulations before ordering components like windows. Misunderstandings regarding requirements can lead to costly reorders and delays.
The building process can be taxing both mentally and financially. Maintain a positive attitude and involve family and friends for support, which Colin and Marta successfully did throughout their long journey.
Understand that your connection to the home will deepen as you invest time, energy, and creativity. This emotional bond can be both a reward and a source of stress throughout the building journey.
If borrowing is necessary, research all funding avenues thoroughly. Understand the terms and conditions, and confirm that the structure of your loans supports your overall financial health.
Be ready for the emotional and logistical demands of managing a build yourself. There will be peaks and troughs – stay focused, and maintain communication with your team to navigate through issues effectively.
Living in a space before finalising finishes allows for better-informed decisions regarding design and functionality. Adrian and Megan only completed their kitchen and other interior details after living in the house for a while, ensuring that the space fit their lifestyle.
Ensure clear, ongoing communication with your contractor and all trades involved. Discuss the project scope and any changes thoroughly to avoid misunderstandings about what’s included in the contract.
Begin drafting plans and obtaining permissions as soon as possible, even before the purchase of a property if it’s feasible. Early engagement in planning can smooth the restoration process.
When designing a tightly fitting structure, allow for material expansion and contraction. Celia and Diana’s house faced issues with fitting windows due to tight tolerances, highlighting the need for flexibility in design.
Consider local building materials and design aesthetics. Imported materials can complicate builds and may not suit local conditions. The decision to customise the roof design was dictated by local planning restrictions, which could impact the overall aesthetic.
If you are managing a project and cannot be there at all times, it’s vital to delegate responsibilities to trustworthy professionals. Justin delegated project management to his architect while he was on fishing expeditions.
Ensure that the engineering of the structure is robust enough to support your design. Aesthetics should not compromise the integrity of the build—balances must be struck for wind resistance, load-bearing capacity, etc.
Keep a visual diary or documentation of the process. It can be a fun keepsake and help in future projects by evaluating what worked and what didn’t.
Think about how the design and layout will impact your daily life. A home should function well for the inhabitants and feel welcoming and comfortable.
Rather than compartmentalising your space into traditional rooms, consider open-plan or multi-functional areas that honour the original architecture while serving modern living needs.
While ambitious design elements are appealing, always consider practicality and the functionality of the space. Consider what will truly serve your family’s needs day-to-day, such as their choice to have a large garden.
Always include an additional buffer in your budget to handle unexpected costs. Chris and Jill faced challenges that led to higher expenses than anticipated.
Look for ways to save costs through thriftiness, such as repurposing existing furniture or sourcing materials from second-hand or discount outlets. This not only saves money but adds unique character to your home.
Don’t underestimate the condition of existing structures. Have a reputable structural engineer evaluate the building early in the project to avoid surprises regarding safety and structural integrity.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.