Maintaining open communication with all parties involved (builders, suppliers, and partners) is essential. The project complicated when there were misunderstandings about what aspects of the build would be managed by whom.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Maintaining open communication with all parties involved (builders, suppliers, and partners) is essential. The project complicated when there were misunderstandings about what aspects of the build would be managed by whom.
Balancing a self-build with work or family responsibilities can be demanding. Consider hiring help or delegating tasks to avoid burnout and to ensure that all aspects of your life receive appropriate attention.
Expect that not everything will go according to plan. Schedule adjustments may be needed, and it’s essential to remain adaptable to delays caused by planning permissions, weather, or material availability.
Ensure that your design respects the natural surroundings and incorporates elements that blend with the landscape. This can create a more harmonious living space.
Don’t overlook the importance of the home’s exterior and surrounding landscape. Investing in landscaping creates a more appealing home and can prevent issues like mud around the foundation.
Health issues arose due to the cumulative stress of the project. Future builders must monitor their physical and mental health, incorporating relaxation techniques and ensuring time off to recuperate.
Ensure that your home design incorporates accessibility features that can future-proof the space. Planning for potential physical limitations, even as they stand presently, is essential for long-term independence and usability.
When faced with financial constraints, Prioritise structural integrity and crucial features over aesthetic choices. Ensure that energy efficiency and long-term durability remains uncompromised while making adjustments.
Be open to learning from other projects and adapting innovative building techniques that could be more suitable for your vision. Fred and Saffron took inspiration from existing structures and integrated those ideas into their design.
Family can provide emotional and financial support during a build. Rosa and Craig frequently relied on family assistance, which helped them through challenging phases of their project.
Incorporating sustainable practices and materials from the outset can create a more efficient and environmentally friendly home in the long term, even if the initial build appears more complex.
Opting for lower-cost materials can lead to future headaches. Focus on quality features (like the windows) that are integral to the aesthetic and function of your build.
Clearly define a budget before proceeding with any design or construction plans. Steph and Alex faced a significant budget overrun when their original design was estimated to cost £500,000, double their available funds. A realistic budget allows for better planning and less financial stress.
Life events (like the birth of a child) and external factors (such as pandemics) can impact your project timeline. Plan timelines carefully and acknowledge potential delays in advance.
Have a clear understanding of your financial situation and include a contingency fund in your budget. This can provide a cushion for unexpected expenses that could derail the project.
Be open to adapting your design as challenges arise; however, ensure that compromises do not severely compromise your vision or aesthetic. Design flexibility can be beneficial, but aim to maintain a strong conceptual framework.
Vet contractors thoroughly and ensure they understand your vision. Communication is key; they should be able to interpret your requirements accurately and maintain your standards.
Innovative designs, like Henry’s decagon rooms, may pose unforeseen structural and logistical challenges. When opting for unique shapes, ensure careful planning and expert consultations to prevent costly errors.
When renovating historic buildings, consider both current functionality and future aesthetics. The couple faced challenges deciding on elements like stained glass windows and the overall look of the barn, emphasising the need to think about how design choices will hold up over time.
Establish a system for tracking expenses and making adjustments to the budget as the project evolves. This helps in identifying areas that may need more funding before it’s too late.
Economic pressures can make sourcing finance very difficult. Time is a healer and finance options will begin to open back up with patience but it could take years.
Sometimes, stepping away from decision-making can help to re-evaluate the situation. Over-involvement may lead to stress and oversight of critical flaws in the plan.
While it’s important to have a visually appealing design, it must also function effectively as a home. Always keep the practicality of space use in mind to avoid uninhabitable or underutilised areas.
Avoid beginning construction until you have the full funding secured. Working with incomplete finances, like waiting to sell a villa, can lead to delays and stress that could be avoided.
Frequent site visits helped Graham and Mel stay engaged and informed about the project’s progress. Keeping a close eye on the construction helps catch potential issues early.
Always allocate extra funds for unexpected costs. The budget initially set at £300,000 ballooned to £400,000 due to contractor issues, underlining the importance of planning for contingencies.
Be prepared for potential delays in the construction schedule. The twins experienced multiple setbacks, including wait times for contractors and redesigning foundations, which pushed their timeline significantly.
Foster co-operation among contractors, family, and other stakeholders. Building a home is a team effort, and effective collaboration can minimise delays and enhance the overall quality of the project.
Building schedules can be unpredictable, especially with unique designs. Be prepared for delays and budget accordingly to accommodate potential overruns in time and costs.
Establish a well-defined vision for your build, outlining key design elements and how the house will integrate with the land. Planning is essential to give structure to the building process and to mitigate indecision during construction.
Be prepared for the unexpected, whether it’s changes in needs, unexpected delays, or technical challenges. Staying adaptable helps manage stress and can lead to creative solutions to problems.
Always account for additional costs. Initial budget estimates often fall short. Expect to spend more than you anticipate and build in a financial buffer.
From land purchase to materials and labour, keep a close eye on the budget. A clear understanding of finances will help avoid overspending and ensure that funds are appropriately allocated.
Building a home is an emotional journey. The couple’s stress showed the importance of managing personal well-being and protecting family relationships throughout the build process.
When building in areas with historical significance, consider the local architecture and community expectations to avoid resistance. Aim for a balance between modern design and traditional elements to create acceptance within the community.
Be aware that undertaking a large restoration project can be emotionally taxing. It requires passion and resilience, especially through financial and structural challenges.
While DIY projects can be rewarding, recognising when a job requires a professional (e.g., roofing, plumbing) is critical. Leanne and Chris had to tackle massive physical jobs themselves, which led to exhaustion and could potentially lead to mistakes.
Consider the implications of removing significant landscape features (like trees) on both the environment and personal emotions. Make decisions based on the long-term impact and sentimental value.
Consider the potential future needs of your household when designing your home. For instance, adaptable spaces can accommodate growing families or changes in lifestyle.
When choosing materials and finishes, consider their long-term durability and maintenance needs. Some aesthetically pleasing options may require more upkeep than more straightforward alternatives.
Engage with quantity surveyors or building professionals early in the design phase to ensure financial feasibility and avoid overspending during construction.
Don’t hesitate to implement innovative concepts that align with modern standards. Incorporate unique architectural features that resonate with your passions, as these can enhance both the aesthetics and functionality of your home.
Building a home can be an emotional rollercoaster. Keep perspective and open communication with your partner or family to navigate stress and uncertainties effectively.
Always include a contingency budget when planning a self-build project, especially with older or listed buildings. Ian and Sophie ended up spending significantly more than anticipated due to groundworks and restoration needs beyond their initial scope.
Be prepared to make compromises on design elements to stay within budget. Discuss these potential changes with the designer to understand the implications on the overall vision.
Before breaking ground, spend ample time studying the building. Familiarise yourself with both its potential and its limitations to avoid wasting time and resources on inappropriate design choices.
Always budget for unexpected costs and challenges. Excavation and foundational work can often consume a larger portion of your budget than anticipated, so add a contingency fund to your initial budget.
If possible, engage those who will be living in the space throughout the design and building process. This involvement can ensure the design meets their particular needs and preferences, fostering a sense of ownership.
Before buying a plot, assess any potential challenges it presents, such as water drainage issues. Instead of seeing obstacles as negatives, consider how they might offer unique opportunities for design (as Dan and Nina did with the pond).
While it’s important to stay within budget and timelines, Prioritise high-quality finishes and construction practices over rushing the process. Rushing can lead to issues down the line that may cost more to fix.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.